Jul 4, 2007

boys.

I have recently been wondering how much the opinion of friends matters when it comes to boys. You see, in the past I have put the opinion of my friends, in regard to the matter, above even the opinion of myself. Further, I have completely disregarded the opinion of my family. Now, being 24, approaching a place where I think that I might be intersted in finding that significant other, I think it might be time to take a new approach.

It is possible that I am looking to revise my strategy because of current circumstances. There is this boy. He and I have been friends for some years now, and it seems that he is putting on some of the moves. This puts me in a bit of a pickle. My entire family loves him and would be quite pleased by the connection. I have a few questions, many of which might easily be answered or resolved, but a few others that might be a bit more sticky. The biggest conundrum... I totally love the kid, but I am not sure if it is limited to the brother/ sister sort of love or if it could evolve into that other kind. The friend pool is either impartial or not a fan of the idea. The base objection is that I could do better, or he isn't right for me, that sort of thing.

So, do I give the kid a chance and take some action to get my questions answered, or do I not get involved at all? Do I go with the family, the friends, or do I disregard them both and make my own decision. Any and all input would be appreciated. Thank you.

It should be noted that this is not the same boy matter that we discussed earlier.

7 comments:

Sweet T said...

ummm i do think we did discuss this.

crankin said...

yes, well you and i discussed this, but not anyone else.

Anonymous said...

follow your heart. Lyndsey H

and i still want to hang out sometime with you.

Class of 2000 officers said...

the answer is 5.5 inches. 5 in the winter.

kidding.

i need more information.

i have come to understand that friends are always right, so take heed.

also, your friends probably think you are more rad than you actually are, so.

i say go for the boobies and see what happens. wait. that's what i tell my guy friends.

in your case, go for the kill.

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Sweet T said...

It's true. Friends are always right.

Anonymous said...

Not to get too serious or philosophical or whatever here, but I have some serious opinions on this matter. I barely know you, Colleen, but this issue is like really important to me because it changed my life. Seriously. Ummm. Email me. It's too long for a post. jessidobos@hotmail.com

Anonymous said...

I think you should pray. And talk to the boy directly about your concerns.